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Orientation & Onboarding

Proper orientation and training are essential components for the success of your new hire. In this chapter we explore key aspects of the onboarding process, conducting trial periods, training opportunities, and written work agreements.
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When you find the right team of professionals to work in your home, proper orientation and training is essential to onboarding them successfully.

Potential Hire Trial Period

Once you select an employee to begin work in your home, a trial period is one of the best ways to get things started off on the right foot. It allows you as the employer and they as the employee to evaluate one another to see if things will work long term.

  • Whether you choose to do a short or long trial period, be sure that you do your best to mimic actual home life and what their job will entail.
  • Allow enough observation time to see how personalities mesh, how the employee takes direction or initiative, and if there is good chemistry. Hiring someone to work in your home is personal and requires the right fit.
  • If you decide it’s not a great fit long term, it’s okay. Be honest about your feelings and observations and wish them the very best in their career endeavors.

It’s better to provide a trial and determine it’s not a good fit early on, rather than investing time and training in the employee, all to find out that it was never a good fit in the first place.

At Household Staffing, we recommend a paid 5-day trial – at a wage that matches what the employee would actually make. This is generally plenty of time to see how the employee works in your home and interacts with your family and other staff.

Welcoming New Staff Members

A warm welcome to your home ensures your new staff members feel comfortable.

First, spend some time giving them a tour of your home and the space they will be working in. This is a great way to greet them and introduce them to your family and other staff members.

Some employers provide a welcome gift, too. This could be a handwritten card or specially drawn picture from the children for a new nanny with a coffee gift card, a new computer or iPad for your personal assistant, or anything else you deem necessary.

Establishing an open and welcoming environment at the very get-go helps set the tone for a positive, respectful and healthy working relationship.

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Training Programs and Resources

There are a variety of different training programs and resources for your employees, but they vary depending on what type of position you’re hiring for.

We recommend all household employees are CPR and First Aid Certified. If your employee isn’t certified, consider paying for them to complete the course and obtain their certification at the time of hire.

Position Specific Training

For Newborn Care Specialists

Newborn care specialists are experienced nannies that have completed additional training around babies and newborns.

During the interview process, find out if the nanny has completed the International Nanny Association (INA) Newborn Care Specialist Basic Skills Assessment.  

Also check to make sure they have taken the INA NCS Credential Exam and newborn care specialist certification, which can be completed through the Newborn Care Specialist Association (NCSA).

For Estate Managers

Consider looking for candidates with business management or business administration degrees and/or experience.

These degrees and the experience that comes along with them give candidates the knowledge needed to be a successful leader in the home – managing employees, communicating effectively, and even managing financial or property assets.

Some estate managers may choose to become a Certified Property Manager® through the National Association of Realtors®, which offers enhanced training on the details of property management.

For Housekeepers

There are various online programs that provide training on professional housekeeping skills that include topics on career development, professionalism on the job, deep cleaning tutorials, and more.

For executive housekeepers, consider providing your employee with paid training on advanced organizational skills, tips on managing other staff, or other more detailed topics such as formal housekeeping techniques.

For Private Chefs

Private chefs typically benefit from formal culinary training. Look for candidates who have attended culinary schools or completed programs such as the American Culinary Federation’s (ACF) Certified Personal Chef® (CPC®) credential. This certification emphasizes skills in menu planning, nutrition, and specialized cooking techniques.

Additional certifications like ServSafe Food Handler or Manager are essential for private cooks, ensuring they understand and comply with food safety standards.

For clients with specific dietary requirements, consider cooks with specialized training in areas like vegan cuisine, gluten-free cooking, or nutritional meal planning, offered by institutions like the Culinary Nutrition Institute.

For Executive Assistants

Top executive assistants have certifications and training that enhance their organizational, technical, and interpersonal skills.

Consider candidates who have completed programs such as the Certified Administrative Professional® (CAP®) offered by the International Association of Administrative Professionals (IAAP). This certification covers essential skills in communication, project management, and business operations.

Proficiency in advanced software tools like Microsoft Office Suite, Google Workspace, or project management platforms like Asana or Trello can also set candidates apart. Certifications such as Microsoft Office Specialist (MOS) demonstrate expertise in these essential tools.

For Chief of Staff

Chief of Staff candidates excel in leadership training, strategic planning, and operations. A background in business administration or management, such as an MBA, provides a strong foundation for overseeing high-level operations and acting as a strategic partner to principals.

Certifications like the Certified Manager (CM®) credential from the Institute of Certified Professional Managers (ICPM) can validate their ability to manage teams, improve processes, and lead organizational initiatives effectively.

Additionally, training in areas such as conflict resolution, change management, and advanced project management—offered by institutions like the Project Management Institute (PMI)—can prepare them to handle the unique demands of this role.

Setting Expectations for the Probationary Period

Setting expectations for your household employee begins at the probationary period but extends into the lifespan of their employment with you, too.

The Written Work Agreement

The best way to establish clear expectations is by having a written work agreement. This should be a living document that outlines important details of the employee’s job, along with their position obligations and the rules of the home.

DO WE HAVE A SAMPLE WORK AGREEMENT TO OUTLINE?

Wages, benefits, and other job specific details or policies should be written out clearly, so they know what to always expect. If things change, have an open conversation with each staff member to ensure everyone is on the same page and adjust the work agreement/employment contract accordingly.


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Welcome to the Ultimate Guide to Domestic Staffing

Household Staffing has developed this comprehensive guide, dedicated to all the basics and nuances of the domestic staffing industry, so you know what to expect when hiring a household employee.
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Understanding Your Needs

Creating the right domestic staff structure is crucial for a well-managed household or family office. In this chapter, you'll learn how to evaluate your needs and select qualified professionals who will maintain your standards of excellence.
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Creating Job Descriptions

A well-crafted job description is essential for attracting qualified candidates who match your specific needs. In this chapter, you'll learn how to create effective job listings for domestic staff that clearly outline expectations, qualifications, standards, and compensation to hire the best help.
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Legal & Regulatory Considerations

Becoming a household employer comes with key legal and financial responsibilities. This chapter outlines everything you need to know about hiring domestic staff legally, including tax obligations, visa requirements, and fair pay standards.
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Recruitment Strategies

Finding and retaining qualified household staff requires a thoughtful, professional approach. This chapter explores recruitment strategies that ensure high standards and legal compliance.
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Screening & Interviewing

Finding the right domestic staffing hire requires a thoughtful and systematic interview process. In this chapter, you'll learn strategies for evaluating household staff candidates, from conducting interviews and reference checks to using personality assessments.
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Reference Checking

References are often one of the best methods to gather information about your potential hire. In this chapter we cover effective reference checks for hiring household staff focusing on work history, reliability, and red flags.
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Contractual Agreements

A stellar employment contract is vital when hiring household staff. This chapter outlines the key components of this comprehensive document including work schedules, compensation details, privacy clauses, and benefits packages.
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Orientation & Onboarding

Proper orientation and training are essential components for the success of your new hire. In this chapter we explore key aspects of the onboarding process, conducting trial periods, training opportunities, and written work agreements.
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Managing Domestic Staff

Effective household staff management requires clear communication. This chapter explores strategies for maintaining positive relationships, including communication techniques, conflict resolution, and performance review best practices.
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Ensuring Well-Being & Fair Treatment

A positive work environment fosters long-term success. In this chapter you'll learn key strategies for establishing a healthy workplace, including effective onboarding processes, health and safety guidelines, and policies that promote work-life balance.
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Termination & Transition

Managing the departure of household staff is a sensitive yet necessary reality of being a domestic employer. This chapter guides you through the termination process, including how to handle separations professionally, consider severance packages, and manage the transition for both remaining staff and family members affected by the change.
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Resources and Tools

Hiring domestic staff can quickly become an overwhelming task. In this chapter, we explore practical tools for creating effective job descriptions, drafting contracts, developing strategies for recruitment, onboarding, and performance management.
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Wishing You Success in Employing Domestic Staff

Whether you're considering hiring your first household employee or expanding your existing team, we hope this comprehensive guide has demystified the domestic staffing process and empower you to make informed decisions every step of the way.