Managing a busy home or multiple properties as part of a larger estate means prioritizing professionalism and excellence with each detail. As an estate manager, you’re required to oversee many moving parts while directing other staff in and around the home.
Even the most experienced private chefs, nannies, housekeepers, or groundskeepers need structure and clear direction to thrive in their roles. That’s why creating a practical, yet comprehensive operating manual or guide is incredibly important. Keep these tips in mind when you’re writing a house manual for the estate you manage.
Creating an Effective House Manual
Identify Standard Operating Procedures
The first step to creating an operations manual is identifying what makes this estate unique and how staff should complete their job duties each day. Think of these procedures as the overall playbook that outlines the most important parts of the home – everything from how to greet guests to how the principal likes the towels to be folded.
If you manage multiple homes, consider writing a specific house manual for each one.
Include the Details
A comprehensive house manual includes many crucial details that all staff should know. Some of these include:
- Contact information for vendors or other key personnel
- Security protocols and necessary contact information for security personnel
- General household schedules
- Must-knows about daily routines
- Property maps and detailed room-by-room instructions
- Technology instructions (smart home instructions, log in information, etc)
- Cleaning product preferences
- Supply checklists
- Preferences on how to greet guests
- Entertainment protocol
- Any other priorities or preferences that the principal has (ie. No fragrances in the home etc.)
Keep the Manual Editable
Estates are usually very busy places, and your manual may need to be adjusted on occasion. So, keep a digital copy available that can be edited as routines, vendors, or duties change. It’s also important to remember that as new staff join the estate, the manual should be readable and understandable.
Be clear and concise, even when it comes to things that might seem obvious or intuitive.
Include Visuals
If possible, include photos or screenshots that help explain the different parts of the manual. For example, if there are electrical or alarm panels that staff regularly use, provide a photo. Provide diagrams or photos of storage layouts or rooms to ensure staff know where things are.
Keep the ‘How’ In Mind
Your manual should focus on the ‘how’ things need to be done in the home. For example, if there are specific table settings desired or distinct linen folding preferences, detail how those should be completed. If rooms or closets are organized a certain way, explain how those should be maintained. For protocol related to pets or guests, be sure to detail those, so there is no confusion.
Have an Emergency Plan Outlined
In case of an emergency, your house manual should have step-by-step instructions listed. Consider adding protocol for power outages, water leaks, fire or security alarms, medical emergencies, or severe weather.
Outline escape routes, list important emergency contact information, and have that listed not just in the manual but somewhere inside the home that all staff and residents can see.
Discretion Is the Standard
Remember, privacy and discretion should always be your goal. Emphasize professionalism and confidentiality expectations in the manual and outline rules that help ensure the home – and everyone in it – are safe and protected.
Your house manual helps maintain high standards without interruption, no matter where you are. In the event of a problem or a confusing situation, a well-written, fully thought-out house manual will help provide important clarification and can also assist in resolving problems quicker.
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